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【成(chéng )语(yǔ )】：欲(yù )取(qǔ )姑(gū )与(yǔ )

【拼(pīn )音(yīn )】：yù qǔ gū yǔ

【解(jiě )释(shì )】：姑(gū )：暂(zàn )且(qiě )；与(yǔ )：给(gěi )与(yǔ )。要(yào )想(xiǎng )夺(duó )取(qǔ )他(tā )，得(dé )暂(zàn )且(qiě )先(xiān )给(gěi )他(tā )。指(zhǐ )先(xiān )付(fù )出(chū )代(dài )价(jià )以(yǐ )诱(yòu )使(shǐ )对(duì )方(fāng )放(fàng )松(sōng )警(jǐng )惕(tì )，然(rán )后(hòu )找(zhǎo )机(jī )会(huì )夺(duó )取(qǔ )。

【出(chū )处(chù )】：春(chūn )秋(qiū )·楚(chǔ )·李(lǐ )耳(ěr )《老(lǎo )子(zǐ )》第(dì )36章(zhāng )：“将(jiāng )欲(yù )夺(duó )之(zhī )，必(bì )固(gù )与(yǔ )之(zhī )。”

【示(shì )例(lì )】：高(gāo )阳(yáng )《胡(hú )雪(xuě )岩(yán )全(quán )传(chuán )·萧(xiāo )瑟(sè )洋(yáng )场(chǎng )》：“这(zhè )是(shì )～的(de )手(shǒu )法(fǎ )，亦(yì )未(wèi )尝(cháng )不(bú )可(kě )用(yòng )。”

【近(jìn )义(yì )词(cí )】：欲(yù )取(qǔ )故(gù )与(yǔ )

【反(fǎn )义(yì )词(cí )】：

【语(yǔ )法(fǎ )】：作(zuò )谓(wèi )语(yǔ )、定(dìng )语(yǔ )；指(zhǐ )对(duì )付(fù )人(rén )的(de )策(cè )略(luè )

【英(yīng )文(wén )】：give in order to take

【成(chéng )语(yǔ )故(gù )事(shì )】：春(chūn )秋(qiū )时(shí )期(qī )，晋(jìn )国(guó )当(dāng )权(quán )贵(guì )族(zú )智(zhì )伯(bó )倚(yǐ )仗(zhàng )权(quán )势(shì )向(xiàng )魏(wèi )桓(huán )子(zǐ )强(qiáng )行(háng )索(suǒ )要(yào )土(tǔ )地(dì )。魏(wèi )桓(huán )子(zǐ )的(de )谋(móu )士(shì )献(xiàn )计(jì )，同(tóng )意(yì )给(gěi )土(tǔ )地(dì )，这(zhè )样(yàng )智(zhì )伯(bó )就(jiù )会(huì )更(gèng )加(jiā )贪(tān )婪(lán )，再(zài )向(xiàng )其(qí )他(tā )贵(guì )族(zú )要(yào )地(dì )，其(qí )他(tā )贵(guì )族(zú )就(jiù )会(huì )联(lián )合(hé )对(duì )付(fù )他(tā )，这(zhè )叫(jiào )“将(jiāng )欲(yù )取(qǔ )之(zhī )，必(bì )姑(gū )与(yǔ )之(zhī )”。后(hòu )来(lái )智(zhì )伯(bó )被(bèi )贵(guì )族(zú )联(lián )合(hé )打(dǎ )败(bài )，魏(wèi )桓(huán )子(zǐ )得(dé )到(dào )更(gèng )多(duō )的(de )土(tǔ )地(dì )

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