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【成(chéng )语(yǔ )】：礼(lǐ )尚(shàng )往(wǎng )来(lái )

【拼(pīn )音(yīn )】：lǐ shàng wǎng lái

【解(jiě )释(shì )】：尚(shàng )：注(zhù )重(zhòng )。指(zhǐ )礼(lǐ )节(jiē )上(shàng )应(yīng )该(gāi )有(yǒu )来(lái )有(yǒu )往(wǎng )。现(xiàn )也(yě )指(zhǐ )以(yǐ )同(tóng )样(yàng )的(de )态(tài )度(dù )或(huò )做(zuò )法(fǎ )回(huí )答(dá )对(duì )方(fāng )。

【出(chū )处(chù )】：《礼(lǐ )记(jì )·曲(qǔ )礼(lǐ )上(shàng )》：“礼(lǐ )尚(shàng )往(wǎng )来(lái )。往(wǎng )而(ér )不(bú )来(lái )，非(fēi )礼(lǐ )也(yě )；来(lái )而(ér )不(bú )往(wǎng )，亦(yì )非(fēi )礼(lǐ )也(yě )。”

【示(shì )例(lì )】：雯(wén )青(qīng )顾(gù )全(quán )同(tóng )僚(liáo )的(de )面(miàn )子(zǐ )，也(yě )只(zhī )好(hǎo )～，勉(miǎn )强(qiáng )敷(fū )衍(yǎn )。 ★清(qīng )·曾(céng )朴(pǔ )《孽(niè )海(hǎi )花(huā )》第(dì )六(liù )回(huí )

【近(jìn )义(yì )词(cí )】：互(hù )通(tōng )有(yǒu )无(wú )、有(yǒu )来(lái )有(yǒu )往(wǎng )

【反(fǎn )义(yì )词(cí )】：一(yī )厢(xiāng )情(qíng )愿(yuàn )、来(lái )而(ér )不(bú )往(wǎng )

【歇(xiē )后(hòu )语(yǔ )】：投(tóu )桃(táo )报(bào )李(lǐ )；正(zhèng )月(yuè )间(jiān )走(zǒu )亲(qīn )戚(qī )

【语(yǔ )法(fǎ )】：作(zuò )谓(wèi )语(yǔ )、定(dìng )语(yǔ )；用(yòng )于(yú )人(rén )际(jì )关(guān )系(xì )

【英(yīng )文(wén )】：courtesy demands reciprocity

【日(rì )文(wén )】：礼(lǐ )は往(wǎng )来(lái )(おうらい)をたっとぶ

【德(dé )文(wén )】：Hǒflichkeit beruht auf Gegenseitigkeit

【成(chéng )语(yǔ )故(gù )事(shì )】：春(chūn )秋(qiū )时(shí )期(qī )，孔(kǒng )子(zǐ )在(zài )家(jiā )收(shōu )弟(dì )子(zǐ )开(kāi )坛(tán )讲(jiǎng )学(xué )，引(yǐn )起(qǐ )了(le )鲁(lǔ )定(dìng )公(gōng )的(de )重(zhòng )视(shì )，经(jīng )常(cháng )到(dào )宫(gōng )中(zhōng )讲(jiǎng )学(xué )。季(jì )府(fǔ )的(de )总(zǒng )管(guǎn )阳(yáng )虎(hǔ )特(tè )地(dì )去(qù )看(kàn )望(wàng )孔(kǒng )子(zǐ )，孔(kǒng )子(zǐ )借(jiè )故(gù )不(bú )见(jiàn )他(tā )。一(yī )次(cì )特(tè )地(dì )给(gěi )孔(kǒng )子(zǐ )留(liú )下(xià )一(yī )只(zhī )烤(kǎo )乳(rǔ )猪(zhū )，知(zhī )道(dào )孔(kǒng )子(zǐ )最(zuì )讲(jiǎng )究(jiū )礼(lǐ )尚(shàng )往(wǎng )来(lái )的(de )，终(zhōng )于(yú )得(dé )到(dào )孔(kǒng )子(zǐ )的(de )回(huí )访(fǎng )

(礼(lǐ )尚(shàng )往(wǎng )来(lái )，礼(lǐ )尚(shàng )往(wǎng )来(lái ))

谓(wèi )礼(lǐ )以(yǐ )相(xiàng )互(hù )往(wǎng )来(lái )为(wéi )贵(guì )。

《礼(lǐ )记(jì )·曲(qǔ )礼(lǐ )上(shàng )》：“太(tài )上(shàng )贵(guì )德(dé )，其(qí )次(cì )务(wù )施(shī )报(bào )，礼(lǐ )尚(shàng )往(wǎng )来(lái )，往(wǎng )而(ér )不(bú )来(lái )，非(fēi )礼(lǐ )也(yě )；来(lái )而(ér )不(bú )往(wǎng )，亦(yì )非(fēi )礼(lǐ )也(yě )。”

宋(sòng )计(jì )有(yǒu )功(gōng )《唐(táng )诗(shī )纪(jì )事(shì )·李(lǐ )昂(áng )》：“权(quán )（李(lǐ )权(quán )）拱(gǒng )而(ér )前(qián )曰(yuē )：‘夫(fū )礼(lǐ )尚(shàng )往(wǎng )来(lái )，来(lái )而(ér )不(bú )往(wǎng )，非(fēi )礼(lǐ )也(yě )。鄙(bǐ )文(wén )不(bú )臧(zāng )，既(jì )得(dé )而(ér )闻(wén )矣(yǐ )，而(ér )执(zhí )事(shì )昔(xī )有(yǒu )雅(yǎ )什(shí )，尝(cháng )闻(wén )于(yú )道(dào )路(lù )，愚(yú )将(jiāng )切(qiē )磋(cuō )可(kě )乎(hū )？’”

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